Please help us find Leila Naniloa Lanni (my boyfriend, Kevin's daughter).
PLEASE KEEP IN MIND THAT KEVIN HAS COURT ORDERED, EXCLUSIVE LEGAL CUSTODY OF LEILA. DOLLIE DOES NOT LEGALLY HAVE CUSTODY OF LEILA. WHAT DOLLIE HAS DONE IS PARENTAL ABDUCTION/ KIDNAPPING. Kevin has not heard from Leila since the beginning of April 2010, and we are very concerned. please help us bring Leila home in any way that you can think of. If there is nothing else you can do, please at least share this post on the chance that someone who might be able to help will see it.
Please contact Kevin if you have ANY information what-so-ever regarding the whereabouts of Leila:
Within 10 days later, Dollie was no longer allowing Leila to speak to Kevin, and someone, we assume Dollie's Fiance (name unknown) called Kevin and left a message stating that he was Leila's "new daddy" and that Kevin would not be seeing Leila again.
Dollie's last known address, and the last address where Leila was known to be is:
47-390 Ahaolelo Rd.
Kaneohe, Hawaii 96744
Kevin has continued to call to try to reach Leila, but with no response from Dollie or Leila, or Dollie's fiance.
Kevin called the police in April since he has not heard from Leila and wanted to be sure she was safe, and the police let him know that she was still with her mother, and was safe.
Today, May 17th 2010, Kevin received a message from Dollie stating that she no longer has Leila, and for Kevin to stop contacting her.
Kevin called the police in Hawaii, who have stated that they went to Dollie's last known address and she has moved and no one in the area knows where she has gone.
Dollie does not have "custody" of Leila, and Leila has lived with Kevin and I since September 2008, during which time her mother made little to no effort to ever contact her, and I raised Leila as my own.
Kevin took Leila to visit her mother in Hawaii the first week of April 2010, and we have not seen her since.
PLEASE HELP US FIND LEILA!
Leila is 4 years old, and is somewhat small for her age.
her birthday is in December 2005.
She has a big smile that lights up her whole face, and everyone is taken by her dark (Polynesian) features, big smile, and dark eyes.
Leila is very quiet around people and in situations that are new to her, but is extremely talkative once she is used to you.
We have to wait until morning to file a further report about Leila's disappearance with the Tempe and Hawaii police departments.
These are links to all of Dollie Davis' social networking profiles that we know of:
(maybe you know her or know someone who knows her?!)
Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/#!/profile.php?id=566317003&ref=ts
MySpace: http://www.myspace.com/kanoelanilehua
Friendster: http://profiles.friendster.com/3554958
GaiaOnline: http://www.gaiaonline.com/profiles/?u=3768069
Photobucket: http://s86.photobucket.com/albums/k82/kanoelanilehua/
MocoSpace: http://www.mocospace.com/html/profile-view.jsp?user=8239703
Here is all of the contact information we have for Dollie Davis:
kanoelanilehua@gmail.com
kanoe2009@gmail.com
kanoelanilehua@yahoo.com
808-354-5996 - Mobile
808-853-0522 - Mobile
47-390 Ahaolelo Rd.
Kaneohe, Hawaii 96744
**update June 24: Dollie and/ or Malia Shaffer may currently be in the Rancho Cordova, CA area.
We have seen some pictures of Leila posted as recently as June 21st. We do not know if these pictures were taken that recently, but they were posted on the internet on June 21st.
We still do not know of anyone (we know) who has heard from Dollie, and Dollie has either disconnected her phone, or has blocked Kevin's number.
Dollie's Fiance's name is Abel, it may be Abel ?Garza?, he is a paddle boarder.
The "God Mother" of Abel and Dollie's baby (Kalianna) is named Malia Shaffer here facebook profile is here: Malia Shaffer
She has pictures of Leila and Dollie and Abel and Dollie and Abel's baby in this album: Photobooth and this album: Baby Girl
Update August 9th:
Abel's last name is probably Garza (Their baby, Kalianna's last name is Garza).
Dollie and Abel may no longer be together.
Malia's full name is Malialani Kristin Shaffer.
Malia Graduated from Windward Community college, Liberal Arts program
and article mentioning Malia: http://kaohana.windward.hawaii.edu/story.php?aID=39
There will be more pictures posted below later today.
update 08/11/2010 Dollie called from an unknown/blocked number today, she tried to get Leila to say something to Kevin (she said "say what I told you to say" to Leila), after Leila didn't say anything Dollie got on the phone, and said "Leila says your house is gonna blow up." Kevin asked her where she was, but she did not respond, nor did she say anything else.
update 8/14 an Anon commenter (we assume Dollie) left a comment on the blog that was inflamatory and derogatory to Vallori.
PLEASE KEEP IN MIND THAT KEVIN HAS COURT ORDERED, EXCLUSIVE LEGAL CUSTODY OF LEILA. DOLLIE DOES NOT LEGALLY HAVE CUSTODY OF LEILA. WHAT DOLLIE HAS DONE IS PARENTAL ABDUCTION/ KIDNAPPING. Kevin has not heard from Leila since the beginning of April 2010, and we are very concerned. please help us bring Leila home in any way that you can think of. If there is nothing else you can do, please at least share this post on the chance that someone who might be able to help will see it.
Please also see newly added photos in the album/slideshow below
AUG 25, 2010: LEILA WAS FOUND IN THE SACRAMENTO, CA AREA WITH DOLLIE DAVIS. SHE HAS BEEN RETURNED HOME TO US, AND IS DOING WELL. THANK YOU, EVERYONE, FOR ALL OF YOUR ASSISTANCE AND SUPPORT!
Note: Update December 2011, Leila is doing wonderfully and is preparing to take the test for the gifted program at her school this month, as well as getting ready for her 6th birthday party. She is enjoying school very much. She only has the vaguest memories of her experiences during the summer of 2010. While DollieAnn still sends messages to Kevin that range from threatening to inappropriately sexual, she does not keep in contact with any of the children she has had with Kevin, and does not currently have custody of the children she has had with Kevin nor her child with Abel. We have also heard that Kalianna is doing well and is a bright little girl. Kalianna is being raised by Abel and his family, who are no longer close with DollieAnn.
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ReplyDeleteRemove all pictures that have my niece in them immidently and my son and my mother and my brother are you will have to deal with me. This is abels sister kaliannas niece and if it wasnt for me giving the dollies adress you wouldnt even have lelia!!! You guys better take care of that little girl .. We have no assoctiation with dollie so remove anything saying we do.. Are i will take leagel action..called slander!!!
ReplyDeleteDear Anonymous,
ReplyDeleteThe pictures posted in this blog will not be removed. The mentions of any and all persons in this blog will not be removed.
Unfortunately, there are some very big holes in your logic. Let's examine these. I'll start by giving you a short summary of the major issues with your claims: 1) your identity, 2) the identity of persons mentioned, 3) which photographs are in question, 4) your legal rights to the photographs, 5) our/others' legal rights to the photographs, 6) privacy, and finally 7) your claim of slander.
1) First of all, being that you are posting here anonymously, we do not know who you are, and therefore any claim you make here (anonymously) is completely irrelevant. Before you could demand any action from us you would need to properly identify yourself. You would then have to properly show cause for your demands (i.e. proof of copyright, etc).
2) You claim there are pictures of your niece, son, mother, brother, and sister, yet you have failed to identify who these people are. You would then have to show proof that you are the copyright holder of the photographs of these persons.
3) You also have failed to identify any photographs we might be displaying of the persons you mention. If you had any valid claim to any of these photographs you have not identified which ones.
4) Regardless of the aforementioned problems, you unfortunately do not have any legal claim to any photograph posted on my blog. Even if we were to assume you held copyrights to these photographs (which you in fact do not; this will be explained later) our use of them would be considered Fair Use.
5) The photographs posted here are either: 1) our own content, or 2) copied from Facebook.com. If you had read and understood the Terms of Service (ToS) provided to you when you signed up for Facebook and began posting photographs (assuming any of these photographs even came from you), you would know that you forfeited your rights to that material when you posted them on Facebook. The moment you post a photograph to Facebook it becomes their property not yours (again, assuming any of it was posted by you in particular).
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ReplyDelete6) Before you start in with claims of "invasion of privacy", we'll assume the photographs you mentioned are some of the ones copied from Facebook. Unfortunately for you, Facebook does not guarantee that content you post will not be viewed by unauthorized persons. Though in this scenario we have to also assume the photographs were posted privately on Facebook, which was not the case.
7) I can only assume, by your comment, that you mean to claim that your name or the name(s) of members of your family have somehow been slandered on my blog. Defamation ("slander") is the communication of a false statement that makes a claim, expressly stated or implied to be factual, that may give an individual, business, product, group, government, or nation a negative image. No such statements have been made in this blog.
So, as you can see, these photographs do not belong to you. If you do not own the copyrights to the photographs in question, you cannot claim infringement. Therefore you have no legal grounds for a lawsuit on these basis. Additionally, since no statements were made about the character of anyone (not you, not Dollie, not anyone) on my blog, be they true or false, which could give them a negative image, you also have no legal grounds for a defamation lawsuit.
Now that we have covered all the legal matters, I would like to say to you: do not try to credit yourself with the return of my missing daughter. Even if it's true that you gave the sheriff Dollie's address at some point, we already had her address and even if we didn't she would have been found with or without your assistance and the sheriff's department still would have returned Leila to me because I am the sole legal custodian of Leila. Frankly, I don't care who you are or how you are associated with Dollie. Please do not waste my time again with your nonsense.
Have a nice day.
All legalities aside, Anonymous, it would benefit you to learn that almost no one, ever, will comply to your requests if you come at them with disrespect and threats.
ReplyDeleteI'm not sure if that works for you in real life, but here in internet land, it's a little harder to intimidate a person, so you might trying being polite and asking people nicely if you have a favor you want to ask of them.
Empty threats will rarely have the desired impact.
dumb ass white trash thats what you two are lala shouldnt be with you are dollie and facts the fact is your dumb ass gave lelia away and she was so screwed up from the damage your dumb ass id in the first place talk all your leagle bull shit you sit on your ass in geek land..lmao trust me you know your lil dark secret you hold and it will be revieled .. lala deservise a good home .. and to your dumb ass fat girl friend get a hobby you never gave a shit about lelia ...
ReplyDeleteyou know what i apolagize i lloked at her pics and she does look happy i am abels sister and i had the pleasure of having her in my home for a couple of months and to be honest i just miss her i only want the best for her with whover she is with i hope you except my appoligy as i do not do it offten and i ask you do remove pictures that have abel kaliana and my mom and my son in them we do nit have any contact with dollie and i hope one day to see lelia again
ReplyDeleteYou will probably go back to the threats and insults when you read this, but nothing will be removed from this blog. We still have no idea who you are or the people you've mentioned. Regardless, none of the photos or other information presented here will be removed.
ReplyDeleteAlso, if you miss Leila, feel free to view pictures of her online. Other than that, you will have no contact with her. Dollie apparently associated with some people who were drug addicts, and for all we know you are one of them. Leila does not need to be around that kind of influence.
Goodbye.
Hello again, Anonymous,
ReplyDeleteWhile the majority of your post is wholly incomprehensible, it seems that you are A) Talking about our daughter Leila, B) Claiming our home is no good for her, and C) claming that she has some sort of (?mental?) issues that our raising her has caused.
In Response:
A) If you are talking about Leila (L-E-I-L-A), and not some girl named "Lala" or "Lelia", please try spelling her name right. If you are not talking about Leila, please post your comments somewhere where the parents of "Lala" or "Lelia" may see them.
B) Leila is with family that loves her, and that she loves. She was ecstatic to be back home with us, and remains so to this very day. She eats healthy meals, Learns, and plays every day. She excitedly hugged and kissed her Daddy as soon as she saw him, and has called him "Daddy" right from the start, and didnt want to let go of him for even a moment, even though Dollie claimed to have trained her to call him "Kevin", and was trying to train her to call someone else "Daddy". She was also ecstatic to see me, and told me "you are my mommy, and I love you", Since I am the only mother she has known the majority of her life. While I am sure there were good parts of this summer for her, it must have also been horribly confusing and difficult. Luckily, she took it in stride.
C) If you mean to imply that Leila has mental issues or imply that "damage" has been done to her, you are correct that she is a unique girl. She has seen doctors who are not concerned that there is anything wrong with her, but she is clearly at a different place than most of her peers as far as her mentality goes, she may be diagnosed ADHD like her sister and father were at some point (her personality is remarkably similar to her sister's, and it may be due to genetics, ADHD, or the "care" they received at Dollie's hand as infants). She, unfortunately, may have also suffered some neglect while in Dollie's care either when she was little, and/or the first time Dollie kidnapped her, in 2008.
After Dollie kidnapped her in 2008, When she came to us after many months, apparently, being dragged around the country by Dollie, she was nearly 3 years old, yet was not speaking (except the phrase "gimme dat"), she was much too thin, and only recognized McDonalds as food, and she was not potty trained. (These things are also consistent with the "care" Dollie apparently gave to some of her other children, though I, obviously, don't know for sure, since I wasn't there)
ReplyDeleteWe and her preschool gave Leila a lot of love, attention, proper nutrition, and many learning experiences every single day, and she got bigger and healthier, and closer and closer to the same developmental stages as her peers. Luckily, though she has been through some difficult situations, and she can be defiant and stubborn when she is nervous or doesn't get her way, she is also a smart girl. With proper care and proper opportunities, her brains, sense of humor, and sweet personality really shine.
(Dollie would have been able to see and take part in Leila's day to day life at home and preschool and see almost daily pictures of Leila during 2008 and 2009, had she ever chose to accept the invitation to view Leila's private blog or private online photo album, however, she never did choose to view these things)
As you can imagine, we were very nervous about sending Leila to visit Dollie this year. Dollie had kidnapped and disappeared with her for several months in 2008, and when we finally got her (after Dollie claimed she was going to give her away to strangers), she was not in the best condition.
This is not unlike what Dollie did with her older daughters, and may very well do with her newest child(ren) when she tires of them.
However, we still believed that we should encourage Dollie's relationship with Leila, since Dollie is her biological mother.
After Leila came back to Kevin (and came under my care for the first time) in 2008, and until she went to see Dollie this year, Dollie did not maintain close contact with her, and Leila did not remember her, though we had always allowed Dollie contact with her, we had given Leila pictures of Dollie to look at, and we had encouraged her to try to come visit and things like that. (but we were hesitant to send Leila to Hawaii, due to the people Dollie claimed she was around)
It wasn't until Dollie was pregnant with Kalianna that she showed any particular interest in visiting with Leila or her other children.
Before Leila left, Dollie had claimed that she would try to help pay for the plane tickets for Leila to visit, but once Leila was there, Dollie stated that she wouldn't help pay for the tickets because she was under the impression that I had come to Hawaii as well (which I had not).
Before Leila left to visit, this year, we made sure that she saw lots of pictures of Dollie, and that she knew who she was. Leila had chosen to call me "mommy" over the time I have known her, so we told her that Dollie was "Mom" so she wouldn't be confused or scared.
-as a side note, we did not encourage or teach Leila to call me "mommy" she just eventually called me that, since that was the role I have always been in with her.
The first few days Leila was in Hawaii, things seemed ok, and Dollie was allowing Kevin to talk to her and everything, But, quite soon, Dollie was asking when Kevin would be picking Leila up. Kevin, encouraged Dollie to reestablish her role in Leila's life and take care of Leila, and act like a mother to her for a while. The longest this period could have possibly lasted was just a couple of weeks, until Dollie's legal period of visitation was over. Leila was never supposed to be there for longer than a couple of weeks, but, Within just a few days, Dollie had cut Kevin's contact with herself and with Leila.
I am sorry if you misunderstand the things that happened. Kevin did not give Leila away, he let Leila visit Dollie, and when Dollie nearly instantly tried to get rid of her, he told Dollie to act like a mother and spend some time caring for and loving at least one of her 4 (or now 5?) children.
ReplyDeleteIf you are related to Dollie's newest child(ren), I encourage you to please, please, please stay in close contact with them and make sure they are well cared for. Dollie does not have a very good track record at this point, and I worry for any current and future babies she has.
Please don't be concerned about Leila, she is in very good care, she is happy and loved. It seems that the most irresponsible thing we have ever done in her life was encourage her to have a relationship with Dollie. It was with only good intent that we did it, thinking that all children deserve to have a relationship with their biological parents if possible.
Anonymous,
ReplyDeletePlease also understand that this blog post and these pictures are a very important record of the horrible and difficult things we had to endure over this summer, and we have no intention of taking them down.
If you are related to the people listed in this blog, aside from Abel, and Kalianna, as far as we know, your name, and the name of your family members are not listed here, nor have they ever been listed anywhere else by us.
Please also bear in mind that all pictures and information listed here either belong to us, or were obtained from very public places/websites in 100% legal ways. (meaning: even if we DID take this stuff down, it would still be up in the public places where we found it originally)
i get everything you are saying trust me i do my name is davina i am abels sister and to be honest im glad leila is doing well ihave had my share of issues with dollie i wll not sit in bad mouth her but rest assured i do not like her nor do i have anything to do with her other then if she does see kalianna it is supervised by me she will never hurt my niece are cause any pain to her other then not getting her act together to be a mom unfoutiontaly my niece will grow up thinking i am her mom and that is fine you speek of dollie been invovled with people doing drugs was this in sacromento? please do share as this information would be benificial to me . I love leilia dearly for the short amount of time she was here i took great care of her i just want to remain in contact with her. if it is ok
ReplyDeleteHi Davinia,
ReplyDeleteThanks for giving us some more information. About who you are, and your situation.
Dollie stated she was around drug users in Hawaii. We had no contact with her while she was in Sacramento, however we are aware that she was arrested there, but we were not informed of why she was arrested.
I'm sorry to hear that your family, and more little children have been affected by the messes she seems to keep making.
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ReplyDeleteIf you would like to have a more private conversation with us, please feel free to email at wildernessgeeks@gmail.com
ReplyDeleteDavina, I apologize. I hust reread your comment and realized that I read and spelled your name wrong.
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